Yesterday, my friend Abby was talking about how much she likes reading personal blogs because it lets you inside their world, if not for just a moment. People put themselves out there, and expose so much of their lives and feelings, and it is really interesting to see how others live. I got to thinking about my blog, and if anyone were to read it if they would think that. I decided that the answer is no.
I think that when I started my blog I wanted a place to a)discuss my Wunzees and post my new ones, b)talk about other crafty things, c)just discuss what was going on in my life. The truth of the matter is, if its not about a movie I’m seeing, a project I’m working on, or a dinner I’m eating, there isn’t much substance to my blog. Sure, I have my Etsy Tag Mondays which keep it kind of crafty, but I’m not a food blog, I’m barely a craft blog, and I’m definitely not revealing enough about myself to make it a personal blog. So how do I change this? I don’t really know if I do.
I think that in order for my blog to take some shape, I need to have a singular focus, and do other things on the exterior. Planning an event, having a baby, etc…those all make good solid blog topics. However, no event to plan thus far, and I’m not pregnant.
Discussing my thoughts and feelings likely won’t start to overcome this blog. I don’t know what I’m afraid of. I think that if my blog were anonymous and people didn’t know it was me writing it…sure, bring on the feelings. This is what I’m thinking though. I’m not going to talk about relationship woes on my blog, because a)I don’t really have any, and b)my boyfriend and friends read my blog. I’m not going to talk about family or finance or friends woes, because my family and friends are basically the only ones who read my blog. I’m also not going to talk about work issues because someone I work with might read my blog.
If and when something awesome happens…you bet I’ll write about it, but the everyday thoughts and feelings I have, I just don’t feel comfortable writing about. Feelings could get hurt. I might offend people with my written words, stuff I would never consider saying to them in person. Maybe that makes me a bad blogger…I don’t know. What I do know though, is I will continue to write this way for now…silly, not terribly exciting blog entries, without a whole lot of depth, and some photos or silly image (like below). Trust me…its for the best. You probably don’t want to know what I’m thinking anyway.










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There are different kinds of blogs. I think keeping yours in your comfort zone is totally acceptable. I like yours just the way it is. If you wanted to start an anonymous blog and spill your guts, go for it. But don’t tell us!
By Jamie on 12.26.09 11:11 pm | Permalink
Thanks Jamie…its going to stay the same until I have reason to change it…but even then, its doubtful it will change too much.
By thelittlegoat on 12.27.09 10:57 am | Permalink
Finding your bloggy voice is a challenge – I have a hard time not getting psyched out by the people I know in Real Life who’ve started reading my blog. At the end of the day, you have to write for you, and I think you’ll find that your comfort zone grows as you get more accustomed to sharing yourself in that way.
By Morgan @ The818 on 12.27.09 2:14 pm | Permalink
writing about your body and your pregnancy and your marriage planning is definitely something you were good at Morgan. However crude, your pregnancy stuff was hilarious and honest. With my world right now though, I just don’t want to offend…because its not just about me. I’ll get there…just not yet.
By thelittlegoat on 12.27.09 3:19 pm | Permalink
My take on blogging is always evolving, and has definitely changed since the blog went more public in our social group. I think the most important thing is just being true to yourself. If that means being vague or omitting things, then that’s A-OK. If it means spilling every bean in the world, fine. I think you’re splendid, just the way you are!
By abbersnail on 12.27.09 7:13 pm | Permalink
Ha.. I hope you get this. You hit on the very thing that I think most people who blog struggle with. That is unless you’re a true author and love to write poetic thoughts, what else can you write about CONSISTENTLY? I think this is the reason I have 3 blogs. Two of them are NOt about me. The one that IS about me suffers, for the very reasons you stated. I think you’ve articulated it very well. And so I write about all things Black and White and of Sandwiches. Can you imagine. Thanks for writing down what I was thinking. I am now a loyal follower. Hope some time you’ll stop in and say hello at http://www.samwich365.com. Would be proud to have you as a friend and follower too. Have a great day. Keri (aka Sam) http://www.samwich365.com or http://www.blackandwhitesite.com or (the one about me that suffers) http://www.spitnglue.com LOL
By Keri on 01.04.10 7:53 am | Permalink
thanks for following me…and I’m glad you understand my struggle. Ill go check out your blog now.
By thelittlegoat on 01.04.10 8:14 am | Permalink
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